Marggies Private

How it works

A private process, explained end to end.

This page walks through each stage of the matchmaking process, what is included in the packages, how introductions are handled, and what happens after mutual interest.

The five stages

  1. 1

    Apply

    Tell us who you are and what you are looking for — relationship goals, values, faith, family intentions, lifestyle, and location.

  2. 2

    Screen

    Every applicant is reviewed by a human. Profiles are verified, intent is checked, and compatibility details are prepared for matching.

  3. 3

    Curate

    You receive curated introductions built around real compatibility and lifestyle alignment rather than volume.

  4. 4

    Facilitate

    When interest is mutual, both parties enter a guided private compatibility session with Marggie (or her team) before any personal contact is released.

  5. 5

    Continue

    If you both remain interested, contact details are privately released. If not, you stay active and keep receiving refined introductions.

The rules we hold to

Confidential, human-led, guided.

01

Confidential

Your search stays private

No public browsing, no idle profile exposure. Your details are screened internally and only shared with a member when you both agree to it.

02

Human-led

Judgment, not endless swiping

Values, faith, family intentions, lifestyle, and location are weighed as context for an introduction — not reduced to filter boxes.

03

Guided

A session before any contact

When interest is mutual, both people enter a guided compatibility session with Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team) before contact details are released.

Packages

Each package, in detail

Every package below is screened and curated by the same team. The difference is how much facilitation, prioritisation, and continued support you receive.

Nigeria

Basic Matchmaking

₦1,500minimum entry

For serious singles seeking meaningful relationships through a structured and intentional matchmaking experience.

You explore verified member profiles inside the Marggies ecosystem and connect with the people you are genuinely interested in.

What’s included

  • Full access to member profiles
  • Ability to express intentional interest
  • Mutual connection matching
  • Access to intentional singles within the platform
  • Structured matchmaking experience
  • Direct contact release after mutual interest

How the basic experience works

  1. 1Browse member profiles within the platform.
  2. 2Where you find someone you are interested in, indicate your interest through the platform.
  3. 3The other person is notified privately.
  4. 4If the interest is mutual, the platform confirms the connection.
  5. 5Once mutual interest is established, both parties' contact details are released directly through the platform.

Important note

Basic matchmaking is ideal for singles who are ready to meet and connect intentionally within a structured and emotionally safe environment.

Nigeria

VIP Matchmaking

₦50,000Nigeria

For individuals who value intentionality, privacy, structure and a more personally guided matchmaking experience.

VIP goes beyond profile access and mutual matching, adding curated recommendations, founder-assisted opportunities, and facilitated introductions.

What’s included

  • Everything included in Basic Matchmaking
  • Advanced intentional compatibility filtering
  • Curated match recommendations
  • Founder-assisted matchmaking opportunities
  • Premium matchmaking support experience
  • Facilitated compatibility introduction sessions before contact exchange

How the VIP process works

  1. 1When two members express mutual interest, both parties are directed into a guided private compatibility session facilitated by Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team) before personal contact details are released.
  2. 2During this intentional session, both individuals can ask meaningful questions.
  3. 3Members discuss relationship goals and expectations.
  4. 4Both people establish compatibility in a structured, emotionally safe environment.
  5. 5If both parties remain interested after the session, contact details are then privately released.
  6. 6If compatibility is not established, the member remains active within the VIP matchmaking ecosystem and continues receiving intentional introductions.

Important note

The VIP experience is designed for individuals seeking a more thoughtful, private and intentional matchmaking process beyond standard matching.

International

VIP International Matchmaking

$100outside Nigeria

The VIP matchmaking experience for members outside Nigeria, with the same guided, private process.

Curated, compatibility-focused guidance for international members within the Marggies matchmaking ecosystem.

What’s included

  • Everything included in Basic Matchmaking
  • Advanced intentional compatibility filtering
  • Curated match recommendations
  • Founder-assisted matchmaking opportunities
  • Premium matchmaking support experience
  • Facilitated compatibility introduction sessions before contact exchange

How the VIP International process works

  1. 1When two members express mutual interest, both parties are directed into a guided private compatibility session facilitated by Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team) before personal contact details are released.
  2. 2During this intentional session, both individuals can ask meaningful questions.
  3. 3Members discuss relationship goals and expectations.
  4. 4Both people establish compatibility in a structured, emotionally safe environment.
  5. 5If both parties remain interested after the session, contact details are then privately released.
  6. 6If compatibility is not established, the member remains active and continues receiving intentional introductions and curated opportunities.

Important note

The VIP International experience is designed for individuals seeking a more thoughtful, private and intentional matchmaking process beyond standard matching.

Nigeria · Most complete

Elite Matchmaking

₦250,000match till you marry

For serious, intentional singles who want a fully structured and guided matchmaking experience from first introduction to marriage.

Our most premium experience: structured introductions, advanced screening, guided sessions, communication support, and re-matching until a connection progresses.

What’s included

  • Everything in VIP Matchmaking
  • Full access to express and receive intentional interest
  • Priority visibility within the matchmaking ecosystem
  • Advanced compatibility screening and lifestyle alignment review
  • Curated and high-quality match recommendations
  • Guided introduction sessions for all mutual matches
  • Structured communication support during early-stage connections
  • Post-introduction follow-up to assess compatibility and alignment
  • Continued matchmaking support throughout your active membership
  • Re-matching support if a connection does not progress

How the Elite process works

  1. 1You complete a detailed onboarding and compatibility profiling process.
  2. 2You are granted access to both express interest in others and receive interest from compatible members.
  3. 3You begin receiving curated introductions based on strong compatibility factors, while also being able to initiate interest where you feel alignment.
  4. 4When mutual interest is established, a guided introduction session is arranged to support clear and intentional communication.
  5. 5If both individuals feel aligned after the session, connection details are shared through the platform.
  6. 6If a match does not progress, you continue receiving refined and improved introductions throughout your active membership.

Important note

Elite is a structured matchmaking service designed to support intentional relationship building through compatibility-based introductions and guided communication. Relationship outcomes depend on mutual compatibility, communication, and personal alignment between both individuals.

Couple laughing together after a guided compatibility session
If you like someone

Have you seen someone you like?

  1. 1Browse profiles within the private matchmaking ecosystem and open a profile to read the full biodata.
  2. 2Express interest if you want to connect, or pass if you do not.
  3. 3The other person is notified privately — never publicly.
  4. 4If the interest is mutual, the guided compatibility session is arranged before any contact is released.

Want to know if anyone has indicated interest in you? Notifications are private and delivered only to you.

The packages with a facilitation layer

VIP Matchmaking · VIP International Matchmaking · Elite Matchmaking — these include facilitated compatibility sessions and, on Elite, continued re-matching until a connection progresses.

See prices and inclusionsBook your session

Prefer to talk first? Call 0913 732 0078 or email info@marggieslovelounge.com.