Private Matchmaking
Let’s help match you privately with a compatible partner.
A confidential, human-led matchmaking service for serious singles. Screened members, curated introductions, and a guided compatibility session before any contact details are ever released.
- Matchmaking packages
- 4
- Matchmaking packages
- Guided sessions
- 1:1
- Guided sessions
- Confidential
- 100%
- Confidential
Confidential by defaultNothing is public. Nothing is released without your agreement.
Matchmaking that protects your privacy and your time.
This is not a public feed and it is not a numbers game. Every introduction passes through a person, and every contact release passes through a conversation.
Confidential
Your search stays private
No public browsing, no idle profile exposure. Your details are screened internally and only shared with a member when you both agree to it.
Human-led
Judgment, not endless swiping
Values, faith, family intentions, lifestyle, and location are weighed as context for an introduction — not reduced to filter boxes.
Guided
A session before any contact
When interest is mutual, both people enter a guided compatibility session with Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team) before contact details are released.
How it works
Five steps from application to introduction.
You are never handed a database and left to scroll. The process is deliberate at every stage, and it is the same process whether you join from Lagos or London.
- 1
Apply
Tell us who you are and what you are looking for — relationship goals, values, faith, family intentions, lifestyle, and location.
- 2
Screen
Every applicant is reviewed by a human. Profiles are verified, intent is checked, and compatibility details are prepared for matching.
- 3
Curate
You receive curated introductions built around real compatibility and lifestyle alignment rather than volume.
- 4
Facilitate
When interest is mutual, both parties enter a guided private compatibility session with Marggie (or her team) before any personal contact is released.
- 5
Continue
If you both remain interested, contact details are privately released. If not, you stay active and keep receiving refined introductions.
The guided session
Nobody gets your number because an algorithm said so.
When two members express mutual interest, both parties are directed into a guided private compatibility session facilitated by Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team). You ask real questions, discuss relationship goals and expectations, and establish compatibility in a structured, emotionally safe environment.
- Contact details are released only after the session, and only if you are both still interested.
- If compatibility is not established, you stay active and continue receiving introductions.
- Nothing about you is shared before that point.
Choose the level of access that fits your goal.
Entry matchmaking starts at ₦1,500, with VIP, VIP International and Elite packages adding curation, facilitated sessions and continued re-matching.
Nigeria
VIP Matchmaking
₦50,000
For individuals who value intentionality, privacy, structure and a more personally guided matchmaking experience.
What’s includedInternational
VIP International Matchmaking
$100
The VIP matchmaking experience for members outside Nigeria, with the same guided, private process.
What’s includedNigeria
Elite Matchmaking
₦250,000
For serious, intentional singles who want a fully structured and guided matchmaking experience from first introduction to marriage.
What’s includedNigeria · match till you marry
Elite Matchmaking — ₦250,000
For serious, intentional singles who want a fully structured and guided matchmaking experience from first introduction to marriage.
Facilitated by Marggie, the Shakara Matchmaker.
Marggies Private is the private matchmaking arm of Marggies Love Lounge, run by a team that sits in the conversation instead of hiding behind it. Screening, curation and every compatibility session are handled by people who will tell you the truth about a match — including when it is not the right one.
What intentional matching looks like.
The Serious Relationship
“I had almost given up on dating apps because most people weren't looking for anything serious. Within three weeks I met someone who shared my values, goals, and faith. We've been together for eight months now, and we're already talking about marriage.”
Tolu, 31
The Unexpected Connection
“I signed up out of curiosity and honestly didn't expect much. The matching introduced me to someone I probably would never have met in real life. Our first conversation lasted for hours, and we've spoken every day since.”
Mariam, 28
Worth Every Naira
“I spent years scrolling through different platforms without success. Here the quality of profiles was much better — people were genuine, respectful, and actually interested in building meaningful relationships.”
David, 33
Before you apply.
The four answers people ask for most. The rest are on the questions page.
All questionsWho is Marggies Private for?
Serious singles who want a discreet, human-led route to a lasting relationship — people who are done with endless swiping and want curated introductions instead. Applicants must be 18 or older.
How is this different from a dating app?
Nothing is left to a public feed. Profiles are screened by a person, introductions are curated around compatibility and intent, and a guided compatibility session happens before any personal contact is released.
How discreet is the process?
Your details are not published anywhere. They are used for screening and matching, and are shared with another member only when you have both confirmed interest and completed the compatibility session.
What happens before my contact details are shared?
When mutual interest is established, both parties enter a guided private compatibility session facilitated by Marggie the Shakara Matchmaker (or her team). Contact details are released only if both people remain interested afterwards.
Book Now
Book your private matchmaking session now.
Tell us who you are and what you are looking for. A member of the team takes it from there — confidentially.
Or call 0913 732 0078 · Monday to Saturday, 9:00am – 7:00pm (WAT)