Marggies Private Matchmaking
You’ve built a good life. Now find someone to share it with.
MARGGIES PRIVATE MATCHMAKING is a personal matchmaking service for serious-minded men who want help meeting suitable Nigerian-based women.
Whether you live in Nigeria or abroad, tell us the kind of Nigerian-based woman you’re looking for and let Marggie personally search our matchmaking pool for suitable women.
- Marggie personally searches
- 1:1
- Marggie personally searches
- Women you can choose
- 2
- Women you can choose
- Private handling
- 100%
- Private handling
Handled privatelyYour request is handled privately, start to finish.
Finding a serious woman who fits what you’re looking for isn’t always easy.
You may meet people, but finding someone who matches your preferences, values, lifestyle and relationship goals can be a different story.
That’s where Marggie (The Shakara Matchmaker) personally comes in.
MARGGIES PRIVATE MATCHMAKING is a personal matchmaking service for serious-minded men who want help meeting suitable Nigerian-based women.
Whether you live in Nigeria or abroad, tell us the kind of Nigerian-based woman you’re looking for and let Marggie personally search our matchmaking pool for suitable women.
How it works
Five steps, handled by Marggie.
Nothing is left to a public feed. Your request is reviewed personally, your profile is presented privately, and only women who genuinely fit are put in front of you.
- 01
Tell us what you’re looking for
Complete our private matchmaking form and tell us about yourself, the kind of woman you would like to meet, your preferred age range, location, qualities and relationship goals.
- 02
We search our matchmaking pool
Marggie reviews your request and looks for Nigerian-based women who fit your preferences.
- 03
Your profile is presented privately
Suitable women are privately shown your profile and given the opportunity to indicate their interest.
- 04
We filter the interested women
We don’t simply send you every woman who responds. We review the interested candidates to determine who genuinely fits your stated preferences.
- 05
You choose up to two
From the suitable women who are interested in you, you can choose up to two women you’d like to connect with. Their consent is confirmed before any contact details are exchanged.
Two kinds of applicant, one private process.
The process is identical whether you are in Lagos or London — only the matchmaking request fee differs.
Living in Nigeria
Nigerian-based men
For men living in Nigeria who are looking to meet suitable Nigerian-based women.
₦20,000
per matchmaking request
Your application will be reviewed before payment is requested.
Living outside Nigeria
Men living abroad
For men living outside Nigeria who are looking to meet suitable Nigerian-based women.
₦50,000
per matchmaking request
Your application will be reviewed before payment is requested.
Why private matchmaking?
Because sometimes you don’t need another dating app.
You need someone to help you narrow the search.
Instead of going through countless profiles or approaching women who may not be interested in you, Marggie personally looks for women who fit what you’re actually looking for and helps facilitate a genuine mutual connection.
What your matchmaking request includes
Every request is handled by a person, from the first review to the moment contact details are exchanged.
Apply for private matchmaking- Your preferences are reviewed personally
- Your request is matched against our Nigerian-based women
- Suitable women are approached privately
- Interested women are screened against your preferences
- You can choose up to two suitable women
- Mutual interest is confirmed before contact details are exchanged
- Your matchmaking request is handled privately
- Our current matchmaking pool consists of serious-minded, mature, working-class, professional Nigerian-based business ladies of different ages and tribes.
- The number of introductions is up to two and depends on finding suitable women who meet your preferences and genuinely want to connect with you.
- We do not sell lists of women’s phone numbers or send you random contacts.
- We focus on suitable, mutually interested introductions.
Marggie (The Shakara Matchmaker) personally searches.
Founder · Marggies Love Lounge
Marggie (The Shakara Matchmaker) personally searches.
With a BSc. in Psychology, Marggie brings an academic foundation in psychology together with her professional training in relationship and emotional wellness coaching and mediation.
She is an author and relationship educator, passionate about helping people make more intentional choices in love, develop healthier relationship patterns and navigate modern dating with greater awareness.
She is the Founder of MARGGIES LOVE LOUNGE, a relationship and matchmaking brand providing dating, matchmaking, relationship education, coaching and community-based connection experiences.
Through MARGGIES DATING APP, MARGGIES INNER CIRCLE CONNECT and MARGGIES PRIVATE MATCHMAKING, Marggies Love Lounge provides different pathways for singles to meet, connect, build meaningful relationships and explore love.
Known as “Marggie (The Shakara Matchmaker),” she combines professional knowledge with practical relationship insight and a warm, relatable approach to modern dating.
Your private search: Your request is not handed to an algorithm or a call centre. Marggie reviews what you are looking for, searches the matchmaking pool for Nigerian-based women who fit your preferences, presents your profile privately, and screens the women who respond before you ever see a name.
Founder, Marggies Love Lounge
Connecting people. Curating love. Building better relationships.
What intentional matching looks like.
The Serious Relationship
“I had almost given up on dating apps because most people weren’t looking for anything serious. Within three weeks I met someone who shared my values, goals, and faith. We’ve been together for eight months now, and we’re already talking about marriage.”
Tolu, 31
The Unexpected Connection
“I signed up out of curiosity and honestly didn’t expect much. The matching introduced me to someone I probably would never have met in real life. Our first conversation lasted for hours, and we’ve spoken every day since.”
Mariam, 28
Worth Every Naira
“I spent years scrolling through different platforms without success. Here the quality of profiles was much better — people were genuine, respectful, and actually interested in building meaningful relationships.”
David, 33
Before you apply.
The answers people ask for most. The rest are on the questions page.
All questionsWho is Marggies Private Matchmaking for?
Serious-minded men who want help meeting suitable Nigerian-based women. You can apply whether you live in Nigeria or abroad — the process is the same, the request fee differs.
How is this different from a dating app?
You are not handed a feed of profiles to swipe through. You tell Marggie what you’re looking for, she searches the matchmaking pool, your profile is presented privately to suitable women, and the women who show interest are screened against your preferences.
How much does a matchmaking request cost?
₦20,000 per matchmaking request for men living in Nigeria, and ₦50,000 per matchmaking request for men living outside Nigeria.
When do I pay?
Your application is reviewed before payment is requested. Once your application has been reviewed and approved, we will contact you via WhatsApp or email with the payment details.
Start your private matchmaking request
Ready to meet someone suitable?
Tell Marggie what you’re looking for.
Complete the private matchmaking form and let us see whether we can help you find suitable Nigerian-based women from our matchmaking pool.
Your application will be reviewed before payment is requested.
Or call 0913 732 0078 · Monday to Saturday, 9:00am – 7:00pm (WAT)